Lata Mangeshkar and Ramnath Kovind meet
Just yesterday I found on Facebook that The President of
India Shree Ram Nath Kovind went to meet the legendary singer Lata Mangeshkar
at her residence. Lata Mangeshkar herself wrote this.Today morning all the
newspapers followed suite. It was a just
a friendly gesture and the President along with his wife met Lata Tai and enquired about her health. And the occasion was simply a graceful
bonhomie between the two dignitaries. It felt nice to see their photo.
It was no doubt a happy occasion and signalled at a special
type of social interaction that we urbanites have forgotten long ago. In cities it is not
much appreciated if people go to meet someone just for the meetings’ sake. No
one likes to meet any one now a days. Why blame Facebook and whats up. Much
boils down to attitudes.
This news is about dignitaries. There must be some protocol in existence when two important
people meet. That cannot be violated. Dignitaries do not meet without reason.
Yet our President went to meet Lata Mangeshkar and enquired about her
wellbeing. This was truly surprising,
welcome gesture and a happy occasion.It
means known people can meet without particular occasion.
I always have found myself silently admiring the family of
Lata Mangeshkar for the lovely familial bond. All the sisters and the only
brother have followed the legacy of love towards one another.. Mangeshkar
family is not just important because of their contribution to Indian music;
they symbolise a strong bond of love
between brothers and sisters. They always are seen together. During highs and lows of life brother and all
the sisters stood firmly together. After the death of their father, as we all
know Lata Mangeshkar did everything she could for the family making the task
easier for her mother Mai Mangeshkar. On facebook it is a matter of grate
interest to see the photos of Mangeshkar sisters and brother.
The recipient of the much prestigious Dadasaheb Phalke award
for her music, Lata Mangeshkar was bestowed
with the honour “ Bharat Ratna” for her unforgettable contribution to the
Indian music. I wonder sometimes if aliens would come in search of earth if
they listen to her music in space. Excellent idea to send her music in space to
attract extratrestrials. May be scientists have
already accomplished the task. Why not record her one more beautiful and send
it on Mars?
Driving home the point is that the message of sibling love, that this family has been
silently spreading can not be ignored. We are drifting away from originality.
Henceforth Father’s Day , Mother’s Day, Friendship Day are born the market is
flooded with artificial ideas.We feel greeting one another yearly through
whtsup is the ideal way.
Raksha bandhan was just celebrated with grate fervour and
pomp. The festival that symbolises the solid bond of love between brother and
sister looks hollow and unreal. There are Rakhis in the market but there is no love at home among brothers and
sisters. Sisters are bent upon spoiling the happiness of one another. Brothers
are no longer interested in sisterly love. To them sister is a liability. The
brother who learnt to walk holding his sisters frock is ashamed of her. No
occasion is left to show her down. Parents are there to make decisions marked
with acute partiality. This venom has extinguished brother sister feeling. Why
not do something to foster sibling love?
Why not create an award in the name of Lata Mangeshkar
family for brothers and sisters in the form of
some incentives? Oh no. Let us not create another channel for corrupt
tendencies. Just can’t see any bright idea. Everything looks so blank and point
less. Probably conscious efforts through Fb(since it is dearer than relations )
may gear up the movement. Locating many such siblings like Mangeshkars and
honouring them may spark the beginning of a new era. Can agony aunts be
requested to stop accepting sibling rivalry as normal behaviour? May be
something bright can come up then.
Jai hind!